Building a Sex Room

Here’s a cool article about the Melanie Rose series on Netflix: How to Build a Sex Room She specializes in helping people build spaces for “connection and coitus” and presumably […]

Yes, Older People Feel Desire

Lovely piece in the NYTimes about how older people feel desire. Couched in the language of a year’s passing, Margaret Renkel admits her desire, her love of touch, and the […]

Happy Couple, Happy Life

There’s this old saying, “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. But some recent research casts some doubt on that. When they looked at 901 mixed-gender couples, it turns out that neither gender […]

Love Languages from the Originator

Great NYT article about love languages. If you don’t know what the five love languages are, here they are: words of affirmation (verbal compliments) quality time (doing something together and […]

Freedom – an Intro

Congratulations on making it here. It’s actually quite an accomplishment.  When you consider the forces that haven’t been too open or supportive to people over 50 having sex.  It wasn’t […]

Study shows benefits of sex for older adults

Not surprisingly, older men and women who reported any type of sexual activity in the previous 12 months had a higher life enjoyment score than those who were not sexually […]

Live Live Live Live Live

“Take me out to Cypress Hill in my car. And we’ll hear the dead people talk. They do talk there. They chatter like  birds on Cypress Hill, but all they […]

Do You Remember Your First Sex Toy?

What was it? Where’d you get it? What did you do with it? Some people are lucky. They have parents or aunts or friends in life who help them learn […]

Desire and Arousal

Ever hear “it’s the journey, not the destination”?  Same with sex.  Of course the thing that people don’t admit is that the only reason you started on that journey was […]