Ever hear “it’s the journey, not the destination”? Same with sex. Of course the thing that people don’t admit is that the only reason you started on that journey was the destination.
If that’s your style, then you’re in luck. The destination is almost always better with a vivid, rich journey. What are we talking about?
Sex is great. Orgasms, sublime. But getting there, especially with another person, means riding a wave of desire (if with another) and arousal (even if not). How do you manage that?